Today I am saying goodbye to my grandpa. My Grandpa Dearden passed away yesterday, September 17, after a long battle with prostate cancer. He was 89. I know that he is at peace now and out of pain, but that doesn't stop those of us left behind from missing him terribly. He was such a great man. He and my grandmother went on 2 missions. They served in the Phillipines and in Illinois. They worked at the Ogden Temple for many years. During their time there, they did sealings. My grandpa performed the sealing when Randy and I went thru the temple. He had such a wonderful testimony of the gospel and I know that he is with our Heavenly Father and he is watching over his great family. I know that he will be a guiding angel for me and my family for the rest of our lives.
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Grandma and Grandpa have 5 kids...Cathy (& Mel), Kent (& Rhonda), my dad Craig (& Sheryl), Gaylen (& DeeAnn) and Paul (& ReNae). They have 36 grandchildren and 38 great-grandchildren (if my numbers are correct). I have to admit that this time has been one of sadness and happiness. We have been gathering at Grandma's house over the past week and it has been nice to see all of the family. My cousin Kristi flew back from Washington. I miss all of the times that we get together as a family.
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I remember Thanksgivings at Grandma's when we would set up tables that ran the length of the basement and we still didn't have enough room, so the adults would go upstairs and eat in the living room. I remember going upstairs to sit with the adults because the kids were too noisy. I may have been a kid, but I didn't like hanging out with the kids. What can I say....I have always been old.
Christmas was the same. We would pack ourselves in Grandma's little house and play present games. We would all bring a white elephant gift and then we would sit in a circle and pass the gifts around. By the end of the game everyone would be fighting for the orange sticks or the chocolate covered cherries. Grandpa would sit back and shake his head. I know that he was thinking we were crazy.
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I will miss him very much. I love you Grandpa!!
(I am posting this at work, so I will post pictures when I get home.)